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  • It’s funny but I also think it’s important becuase so many people even in the comments here thing because you’re nerdy, your sexless.

    When the second group I got to is talking polycules and their marriages. You ain’t sexless because your a nerd, you’re sexless because you aren’t a part of your local community. You’re not expanding outside your comfort zone and inviting new people in.

    And that’s about more than sex, it’s about more than dating, it’s about friends and community.


  • Sordid_Seraphim@lemmy.zipto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•nerds irl rule
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    2 days ago

    I came back to let you all know it’s fucking true. I first went to a regular everyone allowed dnd session, then I went to a ladies’ night session. Ladies night not only had the implication of a couple people being/having been in a polycule, there’s apparently a large network of polycules I didn’t know about in my area.

    Most importantly the ladies night session was fun as hell, my gender was affirmed, the game was fun, and overall a wonderful group of people. The only disappointment was that 3 hours is not enough time. I could easily go 4-5 with breaks.

    My advice, if you want to get into dnd look for game shops in you area with pop in events. The first group I was in was not for me, second as you know was perfect!