irelephant@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agoIf sexuality is a spectrum, does that mean one person is the gayest?message-squaremessage-square136linkfedilinkarrow-up1441arrow-down113
arrow-up1428arrow-down1message-squareIf sexuality is a spectrum, does that mean one person is the gayest?irelephant@lemmy.world to Showerthoughts@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square136linkfedilink
minus-squareHorsey@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 month agoProbably not when you consider that there is probably a break point in there. Being super gay just means you’d under no circumstances have sex with the opposite sex, no?
minus-squareAsidonhopo@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·1 month agoMaybe its gayer to bottom for both men and cis women though, maybe “gold-star” gays are leaving some arguably gay acts still on the table
minus-squareHorsey@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoI think sex acts are within your sexuality, not the other way around.
minus-squaresquaresinger@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·1 month agoThis here. Sexuality denotes what kind of people you are attracted to, not who you have sex with. It’s totally possible to have sex with someone you are not attracted to and who falls outside of your sexuality. Porn actors do that all the time.
Probably not when you consider that there is probably a break point in there. Being super gay just means you’d under no circumstances have sex with the opposite sex, no?
Maybe its gayer to bottom for both men and cis women though, maybe “gold-star” gays are leaving some arguably gay acts still on the table
I think sex acts are within your sexuality, not the other way around.
This here. Sexuality denotes what kind of people you are attracted to, not who you have sex with.
It’s totally possible to have sex with someone you are not attracted to and who falls outside of your sexuality. Porn actors do that all the time.