Enthusiastic sh.it.head

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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • This is a question that’s been brought up irl recently (alongside whether I would date a trans woman) and the honest answer is I simply don’t know. I’d have to be presented with someone non-binary who I’m attracted to (and just as importantly, vice versa) to really form an opinion.

    I lean towards probably not, but there’s been two occasions I’ve been surprised at my impression of a non-AGAB, feminine presenting person. But two people vs. many more cis-women, so idk.

    It is a pretty striking “well, this is new” experience when you’re not expecting it though. And it did get a warranty sold, that much I’ll admit.











  • Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.worksOPto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneWell?
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    4 days ago

    Since someone went ahead and posted the image source (I was wondering how long that was going to take, lol), ‘Are you sexually aroused’ is a different question than ‘Are you being sexually aroused’ - as in, is someone/something trying to arouse you. This speaks to the original context of the image (the idea that images like this may contain subliminal cues to induce arousal). Might not have been as helpful a clue as I thought it would. A better one would probably have been ‘ignore the word ‘sexually’, then read the sentence with and without the word ‘being’’ or something.

    I’m thinking I went waay too weird/unnerving here. Honestly, I just liked the picture and the weird feeling it has - obviously folks can dig deeper on it (both re: its original context and what kind of things it might point to when recontextualized as a shitpost, particularly here), but that’s truly not what I was going for. For my purposes it’s just a glass with a spooky vibe.

    Will say I’m super open to anyone on the spectrum narrating their experience looking at this, as it does look like it frustrated/pissed off some people a bit and I’d be curious to hear exactly why.


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    5 days ago

    So I like the OP as just a standalone, kinda surreal combination of image and question, removed from its original context. But to try and add a little back, without just giving it away: think about what the word ‘being’ does to the sentence, and the difference taking it out would make. Then think about which question you said ‘I am not’ to.







  • You’re not wrong, and I tried to communicate this in my caveats. But considered as a whole, Southern Canada at least doesn’t seem all that different from the U.S imo (though there’s a U.S. immigrant in this thread who mentioned a little bit of culture shock, interested to read their take if they feel like expanding on that). And I say this as someone who has visited a lot of it (though not everywhere - cheap shots at Saskatoon aside I really would like to go explore Saskatchewan one day).

    Most of us get our groceries from large, pretty evil corporations. Most of us want to own single family homes that few can afford anymore. We generally watch the same TV shows, listen to the same music, and have many of the same pop cultural reference points (Quebec, as in most other aspects, being a huge exception. Honestly find their media industry fascinating.). There’s a generation of Canadians that knows waaay more about U.S. history than Canadian history. etc.

    Then again, I suppose this is the bird’s eye view - zoom in and you’ll see lots of regional differences (still recall disparaging remarks about ‘Upper Canada’ when chatting with old timers in NS the last time I went).