Independent thinker valuing discussions grounded in reason, not emotions.
I say unpopular things but never something I know to be untrue. Always open to hear good-faith counter arguments. My goal is to engage in dialogue that seeks truth rather than scoring points.
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Free_Opinions@feddit.ukto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is a human behaviour you've never understood?0·6 months agoLittering is one of those things I struggle the most to understand.
I can somewhat grasp it in extreme cases, like when you’re dealing with something really dirty and there’s nowhere to put it. But I’m talking about casual littering - things like throwing candy wrappers on the ground when you could just as easily put them in your pocket.
I don’t think anyone sees themselves as a bad person. Even when we engage in bad behavior, we usually have some story we tell ourselves to justify it. But I can’t put myself in the mindset of someone who casually throws trash on the ground for someone else to clean up. It’s kind of like walking around and cussing at random people - it just doesn’t make any sense. You have to know that you’re the problem.
Free_Opinions@feddit.ukto Fediverse@lemmy.world•A Case for Modernizing Lemmy's Default UI with PhotonEnglish1·6 months agoFine by me as long as you keep old.lemmy for the rest of us. The current UI is about as good as it can be. I wouldn’t change a thing.
Free_Opinions@feddit.ukOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is a stance you hold that goes against your personal preferences but you believe is the right thing to do?0·7 months agoMy stance on eating meat is kind of the exact opposite of what I was asking here. It’s one of the two things I continue doing despite not being able to morally justify it. Piracy is the other one.
Free_Opinions@feddit.ukto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)0·7 months agoWhere I live, there’s a strict screening process to become a cop. It requires a three-year education, and you need a college degree just to apply. There are far more applicants than available spots, so even many good candidates don’t make it in. Trust in the police is generally quite high among the population, they’re respected, and every time a firearm is used for example, it’s investigated thoroughly. Officers do face legal consequences when malpractice is discovered.
So, yeah, I’d hang out with a cop and talk to them about the same stuff I’d discuss with anyone else.
Free_Opinions@feddit.ukto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)0·7 months agoThat all cops are bastards.
Free_Opinions@feddit.ukto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)0·7 months agoI genuinely believe ACAB, and this news has me conflicted because my new friend seems really cool and super nice.
What you’re experiencing is cognitive dissonance. New information is clashing with your prior beliefs, leaving you with a choice: either update your beliefs or double down and lie to yourself even harder.
If you don’t want to deal with life then you can just end it for yourself. No need to take the rest of the humanity with you.