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Cake day: August 11th, 2025

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  • cokeslutgarbage@sh.itjust.worksto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneConfidence
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    3 days ago

    Because you’re an earthling, just like all of us, and LMs are threatening earth, and it is your duty to not use them, especially not for stupid memes. You must stop using LMs on your own computer or anywhere. I am telling you that as your sister on this planet that we both inhabit.

    Love you


  • I’m lucky enough to be in my 30s and still have grandpa and his wife (my grandma by all accounts, but she doesn’t want to be called that because it makes her feel old). I was visiting with them recently and said “I still feel like a stupid teenager. I don’t feel like I’m an adult that knows what they’re doing, I’m just doing the best I can” and my 83 year old grandpa replied “sweetheart, I still feel like I’m in my 20s, I don’t think anyone ever really figures it out, no one knows how to be an adult”.

    So i think the answer is: never


  • I do not have the means to donate to things that I care about. Most weeks, the difference between overdrafting my bank account or not is literally a few cents. I donate the $3.10 every time the pop up shows up on Wikipedia. I’m sure there are other organizations that need the money more, but I think Wikipedia is SO important, and so far has remained earnest in their behavior. Proud of you for donating what you could, glad I could help a little bit too.

    Be well, friend



  • cokeslutgarbage@sh.itjust.worksto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonedads rule
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    11 months ago

    2 flower dads in front (adopted dad + step dad)

    Bio dad and bride (if she has a good relationship with him and wants that)

    2 flower dads in back (other adopted dad + step dad)

    Or make them all sit and let bio mom do it, if bride’s relationship with bio mom is good.

    But I like the planenquine suggestion from the meme best, she should do that. When else will she have a chance to do that?



  • cokeslutgarbage@sh.itjust.worksto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneHorulefying
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    1 year ago

    Is there a word for bad nostalgia? Is it just regret? That doesn’t sound quite right. I thought i’d outgrown these feelings and put them away, but seeing this meme brings them back full force. The panic, the instant guilt, the sorrow that all comes with looking over the edge of the bed and seeing my lil cabbage patch kid all crumpled up on the floor. Even now I can feel the surge of adrenaline from leaning just a little too far out of bed, almost falling out myself. Just being able to reach one little ruffle on dolly’s jammies, just enough to snatch her off the ground, scoop her into bed, and sob and apologize, but deep down I know sorry will never be enough to make up for tossing her on the ground in the middle of the night.

    Thanks for the morning cry. Probably gonna have to go to my mom’s house after work and see if I can find my old stuff.

    Hope you get to feel some sunshine today xoxo