almost bragging how little time they took after their kids were born

I had a coworker bragging about lying to his wife that he couldn’t take time off. This is fucked up on so many levels: why even have a kid? Why do you lie to your wife? Why are you telling people you barey know (I had been there for like two weeks) that you lie to your wife? WTF?

I feel like I’m missing something.

Maybe they’re insecure? They don’t know what to do with the new kid, and instead of figuring it out together with their partner they run back to the things they know and hide behind a fake martyrdom. I wonder how many of them will in a few months or years say that women are “naturals” when it comes to taking care of kids.

Congrats on the kid and on being an actual dad!

Write your code as if the next person that works with it is a violent psychopath who knows where you live.

By teaching history, including how capitalism killed millions of people, whole ecosystems and uncountable species.