Mine was from super-hell.
traumatic (for me at least)
This was my ex except the insane attachment issues plus jealous quickly became emotional abuse and gas-lighting and preying on my insecurities by saying stuff like:
“You could only date pan women like me because you’re trans.” (Implied that lesbians aren’t attracted to AMABs and that trans people are too weird for bisexuals.)
And mood swings would be like from “I love you” to “we’re breaking up” in a few hours, whenever she felt like making me panic.
She also would sometimes chastise me for being like a terrible “boyfriend” and the dynamic that she invented was like the tired girlfriend who does everything and the enlightened manchild who won’t fix his problems. (I am a transgirl).
She saw me as some weird thing in-between a masculine guy and a girl (only in a sexual context).
SA
Made me to dom her because it was the only type of sex she liked even though I was derealizing (close your eyes and think of England) during it and came onto me a few times while I was saying no and trying to move her off, she said it was because of hypersexuality. Also she was like clearly a fan of porn with transgirls in it and had a fetish for parts of me I had dysphoria about.
There’s other stuff that happened later on as she got worse, less stable, and more sadistic. I can’t even talk about those.
ivM6 to IM7 is my favorite.