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  • softcat@lemmy.catoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    21 hours ago

    So the answer is, “no”, but isn’t that obvious? That’s not much of an explanation really. While pithy it’s not very useful.

    As others have pointed out, some parts of the West do currently practice polygamy, or have in the past, but the reasons why it’s largely frowned upon aren’t explained in this response.


  • softcat@lemmy.catoAsklemmy@lemmy.mlDoes this make me a bad person?
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    It sounds like you were a bad kid, but maybe you won’t necessarily be a bad adult given this introspection. Something to bear in mind is that kids’ brains and minds aren’t entirely developed, often causing that kind of bad behavior- maturity is a real thing, and it sounds like you’ve begun developing it.

    I think most people have things they regret from childhood and teenage years. I suppose the key is to be self aware and try to live in line with who you want to be as an adult.






  • I’ve managed to have restful sleep at 78 with two fans blasting me, plus a window open to let in the relatively cooler night air. It’s doable, but the body takes time to adjust. Humidity can be a big factor.

    65 in winter is kind of understandable, since you could layer up or heat a selected space or yourself easier.

    My usual comfy indoor ranges would be 70 daytime, 68 night for winter, then 75 throughout in the summer.



  • It might be easier near the coast, but opening up windows during times of day where you can catch a breeze might help with the heat the house soaks up. Insect netting on windows may make this a more tolerable option.

    Beyond this, the high ceilings in older style homes seemed to make things feel cooler, but I can’t really confirm that. A lot of design aspects of older homes were meant to deal with heat, so it might not be trendy but works. I’ve seen one place with a sizeable indoor pond/pool in the middle of the ground floor, supposedly inspired by courtyard transpiration. The guy was an odd engineer… no idea about longevity but it did stay cool in that place.

    Plants to cut down on sunlight while giving you something nice to look at seems good. Maybe planters for vegetables etc on a flat roof if it’s possible.








  • In the first place I think a better way to establish “is life in this given place good”, would be to address to good vs bad in that place, as opposed to the good in that place vs the bad everywhere else.

    If you must make the point through comparisons, using the weakest possible arguments while standing in for the opposing side makes it seem you’ve either want to misrepresent it, or don’t feel secure enough in your position.

    I could get into the factual claims that could be challenged but maybe that was the AI. There’s absolutely an argument that Western media and cultures create intense, xenophobic biases, but there are more compelling ways to make it.