Omg that was me too. Trans friend to egg me: “have you ever had any gender feelings?”. My dumb ass: “no not really, I mean I absolutely hate being a man and I hate everything masculine about myself, and I don’t want to be seen as a man, but I guess I am one so i guess I’ll continue to deal with it”. Her: “okay then…”.
Omg that was me too. Trans friend to egg me: “have you ever had any gender feelings?”. My dumb ass: “no not really, I mean I absolutely hate being a man and I hate everything masculine about myself, and I don’t want to be seen as a man, but I guess I am one so i guess I’ll continue to deal with it”. Her: “okay then…”.
Oh god, I said that exact sentence so many times 😂 “I guess I am one so I guess I’ll just keep dealing with it”
I want to go back and shake egg-me by the shoulders and tell her that you can just… be a girl!