I used to work at a dry cleaners with a drive through for pickup. You could hand the clothes to the driver through their windows or hang them in the back seat. I Learned if I asked “would you like me to hang these in the back?” The answer was almost always no, because people don’t want you to go to any trouble for them. If i asked “can I hang these in the back?” The answer was almost always yes because people don’t like telling you that you can’t do something.
Open requests with “would you be willing to.” Works every time.
I used to work at a dry cleaners with a drive through for pickup. You could hand the clothes to the driver through their windows or hang them in the back seat. I Learned if I asked “would you like me to hang these in the back?” The answer was almost always no, because people don’t want you to go to any trouble for them. If i asked “can I hang these in the back?” The answer was almost always yes because people don’t like telling you that you can’t do something.
Would you be willing to… suck my tongue?