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196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 days ago

Okay, these word plays are getting absurd 😂

I was asked this question a grand total of one time in my life. It was about…idk, 6 months HRT? I should’ve said this, but my dumbass froze and I said something like “Yeeeeah…probably”
The guy kept arguing with me over my gender, kept telling me I looked like a girl (oooh, thanks sir! :3) and then after back an forth for no less than 5 minutes, settled on “male” cause of my throat bulge. And when I told him I was trans, he asked if I already had a boyfriend lol
Funniest part was, that even tho he settled on “male” halfway through our convo, he still kept arguing with me about what exactly I was supposed to be and he kept telling me I looked like a girl (unintentionally the most affirming person ever, lmao). Honestly what a legendary interaction 😂

Too bad it only happened once…

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