• riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 hours ago

    that’s what i though about my gender and then i always got mad at people guessing without asking me and guessing wrong and it got awkward and honestly i should have just told them cause honestly if the ignorant mountain doesn’t come to you, you gotta be the bigger bitch and come to the mounten or something i don’t fucking know

    fuck this society and it’s normativities but unfortunately it won’t change on it’s own :<

    • Apytele@sh.itjust.works
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      2 hours ago

      The secret is to just not care what people call you when you’re not there. Even when I’m in the room and people are talking about me it’s mostly just funny to listen to whatever they come up with.

      • riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        2 hours ago

        i’m personally not there yet. it still hurts when people (mis)gender me. i hope to get to that point where i don’t care anymore tho :3